Showing posts with label Guide for Muslimah. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Guide for Muslimah. Show all posts

Liham Paanyaya


Ito ay Liham ng isang Muslimah na biniyayaan ni Allah ng Gabay...


Ang liham kong ito ay bilang pagpapakilala at paanyaya sa pananampalatayang Islam. Gabayan nawa tayo ng Diyos sa tamang landas.

Isang pagbabalik-tanaw

Karamihan sa mga Pilipino ay mga Kristiyano. At bilang Kristiyano ay sinasamba si Hesus na pinaniniwalaang isa sa diyos na nagkatawang tao na nabibilang sa trinidad. Na sa tuwing linggo ay nagsisimba; na sa tuwing may problemang darating ay nagdadasal kay Hesus o sa mga santo at santa, lumuluhod sa mga rebulto at taimtim na nananalangin sa kanila na sana ganito… sana bigyan niyo kami ng ganito… o anupaman; na sa tuwing buwan ng Disyembre ay pinagdiriwang ang kapanganakan ni Hesus at nagdadalamhati naman pag Semana Santa. At hindi lang sa Pasko nagsasaya kundi pati kaarawan ng bawat santo at santa, ang lahat ay namimiyesta. May piyesta ng Nazareno, Sta. Ana, Sta. Rita, Feast of St. Jude at St. Therese pati ni Valentino ay may espesyal na okasyon. Ang lahat ng mga gawaing ito ay aking kinalakihan.


Islam, Iman & Ihsan

"Say: We believe in Allah (God Almighty) and that which was revealed to Abraham and Ishmael and Isaac and Jacob and the tribes and that which was given to Moses and Jesus and to the Prophets from their Lord; we make no distinction between any of them, and to Him (God) we submit."
[Qur'an; 3:83]


Islam has thre essential aspects or levels. They are Islam, Iman and Ihsan.


Islam, In the lexical context, means surrender and submission to the commands of Allah Ta'ala. This meaning occurs in the Qur'an:

"Then, when (Ibrahim (alayhi-salam) and his son) had both submitted (to Allah's command for Ibrahim (alayhis-salam) to sacrifice his son), and (Ibrahim) laid (his son) down on his forehead."
[surah as-Saffat; 37:103]

Islam also shares the same root as "salam" which is peace, and thus it conveys the meaning of attainment of or bringing about of peace. A Muslim is a person who has entered into peace


Iman (belief) lexically means affirmation and confirmation in the heart.


Ihsan, means goodness, to strive for excellence in achieving piety.

All these of these are explained in the infamous hadith found in the widely circulated and read Forty Hadith compiled by Imam Nawawi. It was narrated by 'Umar ibn al-Khattab (radiAllahi anhu), and is found in sahih Muslim;


"One day we were sitting in the company of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, when there appeared before us a man dressed in pure white clothes, his hair extraordinarily black. There were no signs of travel on him. None of us recognized him. He sat with the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. Resting his knees against his and the palms of his hands on his thighs, he said, 'O Muhammad, tell me about Islam'.

The Messenger of Allah replied, 'Islam is to testify that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, to establish the prayer, pay the zakat, observe the fast of Ramadan, and perform the pilgrimage to the House if you are able to do so'.

He said, 'You have spoken the truth,' and we were amazed at him asking and then verifying that he had spoken the truth.

He then said, 'Inform me about Iman'.

He replied, 'It is to believe in Allah, His angels, His books, His messengers, the Last Day, and in the divine destiny of both good and evil'.

He said, 'You have spoken the truth'.

He then said, 'Tell me about Ihsan'
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He said, 'It is to worship Allah as if you see Him, for though you do not see Him, surely He sees you'.

He then said, 'Inform me about the Hour'.

He replied, 'The one who is asked knows no more than the one who is asking'.

He said, 'Tell me some of its signs'.

He said, 'That the slave-girl will give birth to her mistress, and barefoot, destitute shepherds will compete with one another in the building of magnificent buildings'.

Then he (the questioner) went on his way but I stayed with him (the Prophet) for a long while.

He said to me, 'Umar, do you know who this questioner was?'

I replied, 'Allah and His Messenger know best'.

He said, 'He was Gabriel. He came to instruct you in your religion."

The Condition of Women before Islam

Islam came at a time when women all over the world were being oppressed and exploited. The most any society would accord the woman was to admit that she was part of the human race. They never admitted her dignity or gave her rights and responsibilities equal to those of men. The Greeks considered her to be an object of pleasure and amusement. This view was articulated in the classical texts most unambiguously:

We take prostitutes for pleasure, lovers to care for our daily health, and wives to give us legitimate children.

The Romans gave the father and husband the right to sell her to whomever they pleased.The Arabs gave the son the right to inherit the wife of his father (not his own mother) just like he would inherit his father’s wealth and his steed! That is if she were lucky enough not to have been buried alive at birth. This was the case with the rest of the world’s societies at that time, like those of the Persians and the Hindus. Women remained in this horrible state without protesting or rebelling against it. No one else was to do so either. Nor were there any social or economic developments that would require a betterment of her status. Then Islam came, proclaiming her rights and her equality with men. It established for her all of her rights to bring her out of the miserable state that she was in and elevate her to the noble status that she deserves. How did this happen?

Equality Between Men and Women in Islam

Islam establishes the principle of equality between men and women in all aspects of life that they are equal in, because both of them are equally human. It does however distinguishes between them in some areas, taking into consideration the natural differences between them and the special qualities that each of them has. Equality between men and women in Islam is derived from the following considerations:

1. Equality in their human origins: Islam conclusively establishes that all human beings have a common origin. This fact is mentioned in many verses of the Qur’ân:

- O Mankind, fear your Lord who created you from a single soul and created from it its mate and brought forth from the two of them many men and women. - O Mankind, verily we created you from a male and a female and made you into nations and tribes so you may know one another. Verily the most honorable of you with Allah are the most righteous.

2. Equality in their common destiny: Islam also establishes that all of mankind is going to return to Allah who created them, and everyone – male and female – is going to be recompensed for his or her worldly deeds. They will receive well if they did good and they will be requited with evil if they did evil. Allah says:

- And every one of you will come to Him alone on the Day of Resurrection. - A human being will have nothing except for what he does. And his deeds will be seen. Then he will be recompensed fully. - So their Lord accepted of them their supplication and answered them: ‘I will never allow the work of any of you to be lost, male or female. You are from each other. - Whoever works righteousness as a believer, whether male or female, we will truly give a good life and We shall pay them a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do.

Women's Rights in Islam

We should point out that human rights in Islam are not merely rights but are religious obligations. This means that it is obligatory for every person to protect them and restore them if they are taken away. It is equally obligatory upon society to make sure that every individual can enjoy his or her rights to the fullest. Islam has secured for the woman every human right. This includes her intellectual, religious, social, economic and political rights.

Intellectual and Religious Rights

Islam has guaranteed every man and woman the right to think and believe as they choose. It considers thinking and investigating to be an obligation upon every human being. There are numerous verses in the Qur’ân that encourage people to think about and investigate the phenomena both in the world around them and in the wonder of life itself.

Allah says:
- Do they not look in the dominion of the heavens and the Earth and all the things that Allah has created?” - Say (O Muhammad): “Behold all that is in the Heavens and the Earth.’ But neither signs nor warners benefit those who do not believe.” - Say: “‘Travel in the land and see how Allah originated Creation.” - Say (O Muhammad): “I exhort you to one thing only: that you stand up for Allah’s sake together and individually and reflect: there is no madness in your companion (Muhammad).”

As for the right to one’s own belief, Islam has guaranteed it and forbidden anyone to compel another to change his or her belief.

Allah says:

- There is no compulsion in religion. Verily, the true path is clearly distinct from error. - So, will you (O Muhammad) then compel mankind so they will become believers? - You (O Muhammad) are merely a warner. You are not a dictator over them.

The Qur’ân threatens those who persecute believing men and women in order to turn them from their faith:

Verily those who persecute the believing men and women and then do not turn to Allah in repentance, they will have the punishment of Hell, and they will have the punishment of the Fire.

From all of these texts, the independent religious identity of the woman becomes quite clear. No one else can impose upon her what she should believe. She must, of her own free will, decide what to believe. Allah says:

- O you who believe, if believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them. Allah knows best their faith. Then, if you ascertain that they are true believers, do not send them back to the disbelievers.
- O Prophet, if believing women come to you to give you their pledge that they will not associate anything in worship with Allah, nor steal, nor commit fornication, nor kill their children, nor commit slander, nor forge falsehood (to making illegitimate children belong to their husbands), nor disobey you in goodness, then accept their pledge and ask Allah to forgive them. Verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

- O wives of the Prophet! Whoever of you commits manifest lewdness will have a double punishment. This is easy for Allah. And whoever of you is obedient to Allah and His Messenger and works righteous deeds will be given a double reward.

When Islam came, women accepted Islam and made the emigration to Madinah, even though their fathers, husbands, and the rest of their male relatives remained disbelievers. Umm Habîbah, the daughter of Abû Sufyân, accepted Islam and emigrated in spite of the fact that her father was one of the leaders of the disbelievers. Even when her husband abandoned Islam, she remained steadfast in her belief.

Fâtimah, the daughter of al-Khattâb, became Muslim before her brother `Umar did and was the cause for him accepting Islam, because of her faith and because she stood up to him when he found out about her becoming a Muslim and wanted to abuse her.

Umm Kulthûm, the daughter of `Uqbah b. Abî Mu`ît, accepted Islam and emigrated in spite of the fact that every member of her family remained polytheists. There were many women who accepted Islam and were the reasons for their husbands accepting Islam.

Umm Sulaym – the wife of Abû Talhah al-Ansârî – and Umm Hakîm bint Huzâm – the wife of `Ikrimah b. Abî Jahl – were among these women.

Social and Economic Rights

Not only does Islam recognize her right to think and believe as she likes, it considers her to be an active member of society who can make a valuable contribution. Islam, therefore, secures for her many rights, including the right to an education, the right to own property and to use it at her own discretion, and the right to work.

1. The right to an education: In Islam, seeking knowledge is a religious duty upon every man and woman. This is because knowledge is integral to Islamic life. In the light of knowledge, a person’s eyes are opened. This person can then worship the Lord with proper insight and understanding.
Allah says:

Read in the name of your Lord who created. Who created the human being from a clot. Read, and your Lord is the Most Generous. Who taught by the pen. Who taught the human being what he knew not.

Knowledge is a gift from Allah to every human being. Consequently, it is a right granted to all. No man or woman may be barred from it. The woman’s right to knowledge is exactly the same as a man’s. She must know the teachings of her religion and may acquire a deep understanding thereof. The verse mentioned above is addressed to all humanity, ordering them to read and to learn. It was the first verse of the Qur’ân to be revealed. It does not differentiate between men and women. This is what the woman enjoyed since the first days of Islam’s history.

Women used to compete with men in attaining knowledge at the mosque and at the houses of Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him). Their strong desire for knowledge made the women ask the Messenger (peace be upon him) to set aside a special day for teaching them, above and beyond the general lessons that were open to women and men alike. Allah’s Messenger did, in fact, set aside a special day to remind them and to teach them.

Due to the care given by the women and the attention to knowledge given by Islam, many great scholars, jurists, writers, and poets appeared among the women during the era of the Companions and the Successors, and during every era of Islamic history.

2. The right to own and dispose of property: This is established by the Qur’ân in many of its verses.

Allah says:
- Men have a share of what they earn and women have a share of what they earn. - Men have a share of what their parents and relatives leave behind, and women have a share of what their parents and relatives leave behind, whether the estate be small or large – a legal share. - And give to the women their dowries with a good heart; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, take it and enjoy it without fear.

There is consensus among the scholars of Islam that all economic activities of a woman, like buying, selling, leasing, giving gifts, and giving collateral, are legally valid and that she has a completely independent economic existence.

3. The right to work: In Islam, a woman can practice any occupation that she chooses, as long as that occupation is lawfully permitted for men and women to engage in. There is no restriction placed upon her in this.

From the dawn of Islam, women engaged in many occupations such as commerce, agriculture, and manufacturing. A woman came to Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) and said to him: “I am a woman who engages in buying and selling.”

She then asked him for the legal rulings pertaining to some of the commercial transactions that she used to engage in. Another woman came to him complaining that one of the men forbade her from working on her farm. Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “Go work your date palms; for perhaps you might give some charity or do acts of righteousness.”

4. The right to inheritance:

When Islam established inheritance for the woman, it was the first time in history that women were able to enjoy this right. The Qur’ân establishes for her this right in a number of its texts.

Allah says:

- Men have a share of what their parents and relatives leave behind, and women have a share of what their parents and relatives leave behind, whether the estate be small or large – a legal share.

- Allah commands you regarding your children’s (inheritance): to the male a portion equal to that of two females; if there are only daughters, two or more, their share is two-thirds of the inheritance; if only one, her share is half.

For parents, a sixth share for each if the deceased left children. If there are no children and they are the only heirs, the mother has a third…

- You have half of what your wives leave if they have no children, but if they leave a child, then you receive a fourth of that which they leave after payment of legacies that they may have bequeathed or debts.

They have a fourth of what you leave behind if you leave no child, but if you leave a child, they receive an eighth of that which you leave after payment of legacies that you may have bequeathed or debts.

If the man or woman whose inheritance is in question has left no other heirs, but has left a brother or a sister, each one (if no more than two) gets a sixth, but if they are more than two, they share in a third.

- If a man dies leaving a sister but no child, she shall have half the inheritance. If the deceased is a woman who left no child, then her brother inherits from her. If they are two sisters, they shall have two-thirds of the inheritance…
5. The right to marry: Islam establishes for the woman the right to have a choice as to whom she will share her life with.

Allah says:

- And do not prevent them from marrying their (former) husbands if they mutually agree on a reasonable basis.

- When have fulfilled their term (of waiting after the death of their husbands), there is no sin on you if they if they dispose of themselves in a reasonable manner.

Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
“A previously married woman has more rights over herself, and a virgin must have her permission sought.”

There are cases where Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) annulled the marriages of women who were married against their will.

Political Rights
In spite of the newness of this terminology, we find, if we review the Islamic texts and look back on the experience of the early Muslim societies, that Islam has established for the woman rights that can be labeled political rights.

Among these are the following:

1. The right to give consultation: There are many verses in the Qur’ân that establish the principle that Muslim affairs, in general, are to be based on mutual consultation. It is the business of the Muslims to exchange opinions and consult each other on these matters.

Allah says:
- And consult them in the affairs. - And their affairs are by mutual consultation.

These general texts pertain equally to both men and women. We find that Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) would consult his wives on issues of general import. For example, he consulted with Umm Salamah on the occasion where he had ordered his Companions to shave their heads and come out of their pilgrim state at Hudaybiyah.

They did not do so, because they hated turning away from Mecca without making pilgrimage to it. She advised him to shave his own head and sacrifice, so he did so and all the others hurried to follow suit. He then praised her and commended her for her keen intellect. We find that the group of people led by `Abd al-Rahman b. `Awf who were active in selecting `Uthmân as Caliph was comprised of both men and women, whereby “they came to the ladies in their private rooms to seek their consultation with regards to selecting `Uthmân.” This is what we find in the historical source works. It indicates to us that even those women who remained concealed in their dwellings were consulted on the matter.

2. Emigration and giving allegiance: Muslim women emigrated to Abyssinia and to Madinah.

This emigration was equivalent to what we refer to today as seeking political asylum. This was a time when the Muslims were being oppressed in Mecca and were forbidden from expressing their views and calling to their faith.

They emigrated, seeking a place where they would be afforded the opportunity to practice their rites and express their beliefs. The first place the Muslims chose to go to was Abyssinia, because at that time it was ruled by a king who never oppressed anyone in his domain. Muslim women emigrated during this time, sometimes unaccompanied, like Umm Kulthûm bint `Uqbah b. Abî Mu`ît and Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with them both) did during the women’s emigration.

This is mentioned in the Qur’ân:
O you who believe, if believing women come to you as emigrants, test them.
As for the oath of allegiance, it is a political and religious pact between the Muslims and Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) that is an expression of their faith in the Messenger and their political affiliation with his cause. The following verse talks about the oath of allegiance given by women:
O Prophet, if believing women come to you to give you their pledge that they will not associate anything in worship with Allah, nor steal, nor commit fornication, nor kill their children, nor commit slander, nor forge falsehood (to make illegitimate children belong to their husbands), nor disobey you in goodness, then accept their pledge and ask Allah to forgive them. Verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

This list includes a clause of political significance: “nor disobey you in goodness...”

3. Enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong: The Qur’ân has established the role of the believing women in enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong.

Allah says:

The believers, men and women, are protectors of one another; they enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong.

This duty, just as it includes the responsibility to rectify social ills, also has political dimensions that manifest themselves in giving advice and admonition to those holding political power.

As for military combat, Islam has not made it obligatory upon the woman, but it is permissible for her to participate in the war effort, usually as a noncombatant with duties like getting water to the fighters and tending to the wounded.

In spite of this, in some battles, women saw combat. Umm Sulaym al-Ansâriyyah defended Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) during the battle of Uhud and was wounded about ten times.

A Guide for Muslimah

A must for every muslimah....
1. Covering ALL Of The Body

It is an agreed position by many respected scholars that the face and hands of the woman must be covered. Some scholars say it is permissible to uncover the face and the hands of the woman as long as there is no fitna (infatuation) caused by this action. Two things must be taken into consideration

a) if she is beautiful and beautifies her face and hands with external substances, or
b) the society around her is corrupt where men do not lower their gaze, then it is prohibited for her to uncover her face and hands.

On the authority of the wife of the prophet (pbuh), Umm Salama (RA) said:

"When the verse was revealed that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies' was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.

2.The hijab must not be a display

The hijab itself must not be a display. Allah ordained it so as to cover the beauty of women and not for showing off. Allah (swt) says `And not show of their adornment except only that which is apparent.' (S24:31).

AND `And stay in your houses and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.' (S33:33).

It is in no way logical that the hijab itself be a source of display.

3. The hijab must not be transparent
The purpose of wearing hijab must be achieved. In order for the hijab to be a cover, it must not be made of transparent material making the woman covered only by name, while in reality she is naked.
The prophet (pbuh) is quoted as saying:
"In the latest part of my Ummah (nation of Muslims) there shall be women who would be naked in spite of being dressed, they have their hair high like the humps of the Bukht camel, curse them, for they are cursed. They will not enter Al-Jannah and would not even perceive its odour, although it's fragrance can be perceived from a distance of 500 years travelling by camel" This indicates that a woman could cause herself a grave and destructive sin if she puts on a garment that is thin and transparent and which clearly shapes her body's features.

4.Hijab must be roomy, and not tight.

The hijab is a safeguard against fitna. If it is tight, it will be descriptive of the woman's body and this violates and defeats the whole purpose of hijab.

5.The hijab must not be perfumed

On the authority of Ad'Diya Al-Maqdisi, the prophet (pbuh) said:
"Any woman who perfumes herself and passes by some people that they smell her scent, then she is a Zaniyah (adulteress)."

6. The hijab shouldn't resemble the dress of a man

Imam Ahmed, an-Nissa'ee reported the prophet (pbuh) to have said: "Women who assume the manners of men are not from us and also those of men who assume the manners of women." Abu Huraira narrated that: "The Prophet (pbuh) CURSED the man who wears the dress of a woman and the woman who wears the dress of a man."

7.The hijab must not resemble the garments of the kuffar

Abu Dawoud and Ahmed have related the prophet (pbuh) said: "The one who take the similitude (manner) of a certain people, then he/she becomes one of them."
Abdullah bin Ummar (RA) said: "The Prophet (pbuh) saw me wearing two garments dyed in saffron (orange), whereupon he said: these are the clothes (usually worn) by the kuffar, so do not wear them."

8.The hijab should not be for fame

Abu Dawoud and Ibn Majah have related the prophet to saying: "The one who wears a garment designed for a worldly fame, Allah will make them wear a garment of humility on the Day Of Resurrection then he will be set ablaze." The garment of fame is any garment a person wears to make themselves look famous. This applies whether the garment is highly precious and shows admiration to the life of this world or if it is chosen of a low quality to show lack of interest to this worldly life. The person may put on clothes with distinct colours so as to draw attention, act proudly and/or arrogantly.

9.Concealed ways of display

Examining the various conditions about the hijab one can clearly recognise that many of the young Muslim women are not fulfilling these conditions. Many just take "half-way" measures, which not only mocks the community in which she lives, but also mocks the commands of Allah (swt). They consider what they put on now wrongly as "hijab" So, O muslimoon, be mindful to Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh), and do not deceived by those who "bless" this action of yours and conceal their true intentions. Do not be deceived, and there is no excuse to follow the evil.

If you are sincere in achieving Al-Jannah, then be mindful of these things, insha'allah



Here are six beautiful gems for every Muslim to live by

1. IMAAN , Every Muslim should strive for perfect Imaan.

To have firm conviction that
· All success lies only in the hands of ALLAH alone
· The treasures of every thing is in the hands of ALLAH alone
· ALLAH is the creator and controller of all things and conditions

ALLAH does every thing without the help of the entire creation, while the entire creation can do nothing without the help of ALLAH.

The Kalima is the most excellent of all form of zikr.

A person who recites the kalima 100x daily, his face will be shining like the 14th moon on the day of Qiamat .

Frequent recitation renews the Imaan. It is the best of all good deeds. Continuous recitation leaves no sin unwashed.

Nothing prevents this kalima from reaching ALLAH.

Listen frequently to talks about the qualities of ALLAH .

Speak (give da'wat) many times (at least 25x)

So with the awareness that ALLAH is the creator and controller of every thing.

Think & ponder of the attributes of ALLAH.

Only in following the sunnah of Nabi (SAW) is there success, any other lifestyle leads to failure in this life and in the hereafter.

To revive a sunnah in the time of Fitnah & corruption, the reward is equal to that of 100 shuhadaa (martyrs) .

Give da'wah about the importance of sunnah.
Learn & practice daily sunnahs.

2. SALAAH , Salaah should be given preference over all matters.
Our life outside salaah should be on the pattern of salaah.
If our salaah is correct, then our whole lives will be corrected.
The key to Jannah is through salaat .
Salaat makes our daily rizq (sustenance) easy.
Give da'wat about the importance of salaah .
Invite towards salaah.
Perform long rakaats of nafl salaah.


3. ZIKR , We should remember the Almighty with every breath we take
Zikr polishes the heart; brings peace of mind & removes difficulties in this world & uplifts the punishment in the grave
Learn & read mas noon dua's ...lstighfaar; Durood on Nabie (SAW) & Third kalima 100x daily (moming&evening ).


4. IKRAAM , A Muslim should always be ready to assist a fellow Muslim at all costs.
A person who helps a muslim in need , ALLAH grants 73 favours to such person.1 favour is sufficient to fulfill all his needs in this world & 72 is to raise his status in the hereafter.
Make salaam; respect elders & ulama; treat juniors with kindness; visit the sick; attend janaza's & nikah & give good advi ce.


5. IKHLAAS, Anything we do, we do for Allah alone
A person who gives a date only to please ALLAH, ALLAH will grant such person a mountain of reward, but if a person gives for name & fame, ALLAH will take them to task.
To make intention & check during & after deeds that it is solely for the pleasure of ALLAH


6. DAWAH ILLAL-LAAH , Always show those around you the beauty of our deen.
One morning or evening in the path of ALLAH is better than the whole world & whatever it contains. A little while in the path of ALLAH is more in reward than making Ibadat the whole night near the Hajeraswad on Laylatul Qadr. The smoke, let alone the fire of Jahannam is not allowed to touch that part of the body on which dust settles in the path of ALLAH

To create in us the capacity to give our lives for the deen of ALLAH.




PASS THIS MESSAGE ON. IF YOU DO NOT, NOTHING WILL BEFALL YOU...
BUT IF YOU DO... YOU MAY HAVE BROUGHT SOMEONE CLOSER TO HIS CREATOR.

Ameen...